There has always been a segment of our population who
adhered to the “spare the rod, spoil the child” philosophy. They contend that physical punishment
teaches respect and obedience. I’m not talking about child abuse, I’m talking
about spanking, slapping, shoving and grabbing as a means of punishing a
child’s behavior. 32 nations have banned this kind of punishment, but it is
legal in the United States and Canada. A study done in 2006 found that 48% of
adults questioned reported a history of being subjected to some form of physical
punishment without having been more seriously abused.
Previous studies have found that children who receive physical
punishment have higher levels of aggression, delinquency, poor emotional
development, depression and alcohol abuse. In the latest issue of Pediatrics,
the journal of the American Academy of Pediatrics, the leading article is about
a study of information on 34,653 adults that was collected between 2004 and
2005. The researchers took pains to exclude any behavior that would be
considered child abuse and tried to only include what people would consider harsh
physical punishment. They found that this physical punishment was associated
with increased odds of mood disorders, anxiety disorders, substance abuse and
personality disorders in the adults who had received the punishment as children.
I’ve written a number of articles about how to discipline children and
no one has ever felt I was “soft” on discipline. However, it is clear that
there is never a reason for an adult to strike a child and that doing so can
injure the child’s emotional well being for life. Using the rod spoils the
child.
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